Fearful Avoidant Ex-boyfriend
Hi! Did anybody confront their ex Fearful Avoidant about how damaged they are? Did they start to change in any way?
I had a relationship with a FA, I am AP, and it was good, but because of the frequent clashes and fights, he broke up with me. I accepted the breakup because I knew we were not a fit from an attachment style perspective. But since we broke up (6 months), he hasn't stopped writing to me, or better say, breadcrumbing me. Even though he has a new girlfriend now, he still sends me breadcrumbs via email, asking me irrelevant questions.
Actually, this gives me a lot of anxiety, and I would've liked to be ended. I don't give him too much attention, but at some point, I want to tell him he needs help, and what he does is disrespectful to both me and his current gf.
Let me know your story with a Fearful Avoidant partner.