Has it ever happened to you that you have received so many bad words in your life that if someone want to insult you heavily or say things that were basically intended to hurt you, you wouldn't feel anything?
But I mean absolutely nothing. I received a lot of really bad insults, especially from my parents, who now if someone wants to say certain things to me I wouldn't give them the right weight. I'll give you an example: a friend of mine confided in me that she felt bad and started crying because her parents told her that they were disappointed in her. I didn't know how to behave because my parents said really worse things to me and I didn't think that such a "light" sentence could hurt. So let's say that now I no longer give the right weight to words because I have received so many and so heavy words from friends and parents that they no longer have the effect of making me feel bad.