HELP SHES DATING SOMEONE
It’s been a few months since the breakup with my avoidant partner. I was told at the time the break up was because she needed to work on herself. Said she had been getting into too many relationships back to back which is what happened with us and said she needed to work on herself. I didn’t believe it at the time for obvious reasons seems like if you love someone you’ll work through things with them I’m open to opinions. A few months have passed we don’t talk it’s not necessarily no contact by design but no one is reach out to anyone. Well it’s been a few months and she’s back to dating someone else. I feel like I’m in a lot better spot I still think about her often but I don’t necessarily want to get back with her. But just sucks because I go back to when we broke up and her reason being because she needed to work on herself and it just seems like a lie all over again. Would rather have heard I don’t want to be with you then I need time to work on myself, but it’s not like it’s a work on myself to then get back together. It’s a clear I’m going to work on myself for the next person. We dated for a couple months under a year and it was all rainbows and butterflies. Break up came out of thin air and completely blindsided me. What should I do? I know it’s rhetorical but I feel like I’ve moved on I don’t want to be with her anymore, but I just feel like shit now. Seeing her dating someone else now hit a different spot that just sucks. I hate that though I feel better feels like she’s completely moved on and I’m not