u/Immediate_Run_8596

Ok need advice. My ex and I currently live together in a house with our young children. We are both actively dating new people. We have two separate sleeping places/bedrooms. Sometimes we still do things as a family unit, but we try to be as separated as possible. My question is, do we continue living in this house together this way or should we go our separate ways and get our own places? Most important is to do what’s best for the kids. I like the idea of them having one childhood home, in theory, but I’d also like to model a healthy romantic relationship for them, and that’s not what my ex and I are exactly doing. We don’t fight a lot, but there’s tension at times, of course. I don’t necessarily see a negative aspect of kids having two childhood homes, and I don’t see a negative consequence of living in a condo versus a house. But I just am a little lost. Any insight or food for thought would be helpful to think about.