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Hey everyone. I really want to try boxers but like I have no idea what size I need or what the best ones are. For context I'm an AFAB but obviously bigender. I want to wear more masculine clothing and this will be perfect because I can hide it quite easily. Please help me with this. I don't want to go into a store because I'm afraid I'll get judged for it and my parents are really not supportive so I can't ask my family for help. I would appreciate any advice or help.

Hey all, I'm pretty new to this community but I know that I am bigender and have known for almost a year now. However yesterday I decided to come out to my therapist about it and she wasn't surprised at all.

She said that she thought that we would have a discussion about gender at one point anyway but the signs started as soon as I met her apparently.

She said that I dressed like a tomboy, acted like a man, thought like a man and even my name change prompted her to think about why I was doing it.

For context I am a female at birth and I changed my name to Alexis.

We talked about the name change more in detail and it made me realise that Alexis wasn't just a neutral name for me. It was split into three different parts. Alex is masculine, lex is neutral and Lexi is feminine. My gender isn't fluid it's consistent all the time.

But wow my therapist knew for two years before I did. That's crazy to me. And she was super supportive about all of it.