u/Imnotlaughingami

For example I’m dealing with family that keeps commenting on my toddler who is 18 months , hair they keep telling me how to style it because it looks messy and unkept well the truth is I’m 4 weeks pp recovering from a complicated c section and I am tired so yes her hair isn’t so neat it’s washed and clean , yes my house is a mess , no I haven’t taken my toddler to her check up appointments yet I’m surviving as my husband works a lot I’m alone I just cried at remarks because it made me feel like such a bad mom like I’m neglecting my child but I know it’s not true I’m ebf I’m trying my best at time managing and no I can’t afford daycare .