Husband 50M, did Nothing for my 51F birthday
It was my, 51F, birthday a few weeks ago. Four days before my birthday, my husband 50M, told me he thinks I should get a new iPad for my birthday gift but he doesn't know how to order it so I should do it. I don't want a new iPad so I didn't pursue it.
Birthday night comes around and we go out to dinner. Somewhere he chooses because he's a picky eater. I drive, because he doesn't, and even though we have a joint account, was the one that got the card out to pay. When we got home there was no card or cake with candles and no happy birthday song. Nothing.
Since then I've been very silent towards him and pretty chilly. I know he's starting to wonder what's going on but I'm just not ready to talk to him about it. When I am ready to talk about it, what do I say?