Things to do to fuel the limerence during NC?
Okay, so I know this isn’t healthy, but I don’t know how to cope with it otherwise.
I’m going to be forced into NC in four days. Since I won’t be able to see them again, I’m collecting ideas on how to connect with my LO, without actually interacting with them. Below is a list of ideas I already collected. Would appreciate if anyone shares their ideas and maybe could add things to the list.
- fantasizing about LO (fake scenarios as well as past interactions)
- looking at pictures / videos of them
- looking at their socials (it’s all private but I do it anyway)
- scrapping the web of information about them
- writing unsent letters to LO
- writing down interactions we had (only the positive ones, never the negatives lol)
- writing down everything I know about them
- making a list of things I like and dislike about them
- making a list of questions / topics I want to know about my LO
- doing things that make me feel connected with them
- enganging with their hobbies / interests
- doing things how I think my LO would do these things
- eating / drinking things I know they like to eat / drink
- going to places I know they’ve been to
- trying to copy their writing and texting style
Things I never did, but I’ve been thinking about doing
- art projects
- drawing / painting them
- writing songs or poems
- visiting their home town – feels to invasive (it’s very small) + too expensive and time consuming (too far away)
If you feel the urge to tell me, that this isn’t healthy – please suppress it. I already know. I went NC before for six months (except we met once) and I can promise you, it was HARD. Not looking for tips anymore on how to forget them, since it doesn’t work for me. I’m just trying to find other ways on how to deal with this, without invading anyones privacy too much.