u/Important_Orange_923

Shared Living Space - How to host other partners?

Hey all,
I’m (M 40s) considering moving in with my partner (NB 30s). They spend most nights at my place, have many belongings here. We’re considering moving in together around our 2 year anniversary. I’ve only lived with one partner before in a long mono relationship. My partner hasn’t lived with a romantic partner before.

We’re non monogamous. I have another long distance partner and occasional dates with more casual folks a few times a month. My partner is Demi/ace and is in theory interested in being with other people but rarely acts on it.

Our big concern about living together is how to handle when my out of town partner is visiting or if I want to host a casual partner. We’re assuming we’d get a place where each of us has our own bedroom, but even with that hearing things would be non-ideal.

Any one have suggestions or relevant experience?

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u/Important_Orange_923 — 5 days ago