u/Impossible-Celery668

Last week I got married and the celebration party is coming up soon.

We did a small elopement just us, and the big party with all guests is coming up where i have bridesmaids and literally 40K went into it 😭

Two of my bridesmaids haven’t congratulated me on getting married and they knew exactly when I’m getting married. They saw and hearted Instagram stories.

Is this OK? Should I do anything? I am so hurt and feel like an idiot for even considering it.
They are also my I thought close friends I made in adulthood, we see each other like every other week etc.