Alright please don’t flame me 😭 I’m just being honest and trying to figure this out.
After my last relationship, I realized I have a pretty specific preference. I’m into girls who are sexually open and enthusiastic not shy about that side of things. Like yeah I’ll say it, a bit of a “freak/gooner” vibe 😭
But at the same time, I’m not just about that. I’m also super into affection, closeness, being soft and cuddly so I’m kinda both a gooner and a spooner if that makes sense
My ex was like that mix and it made me realize what I actually feel compatible with.
The issue is you can’t exactly ask someone early on about this without sounding weird. And it’s not like people advertise it either.
So how do you figure out this kind of compatibility while dating? Is it just something that naturally comes out over time, or are there ways to understand someone’s vibe earlier without being awkward?
Not trying to be creepy, just don’t want to invest months and then realize we’re completely mismatched.
Would genuinely appreciate advice. And yeah go easy on me lol