Gut and mind conflicted
I am 20s F and he is 20s M. If your man travels a lot for work, do you think it’s reasonable that I can have the passcodes to his devices? He has friends including females all over the place, and even gets dinner with them sometimes. He said he’ll stop this if it makes me uncomfortable. However, he got really mad at me when I asked to see his phone, even called me batshit crazy, and then proceeded to check what I was looking at on his phone. He said that if I would have just asked instead of demanding it, he would have just given it to me. I didn’t go through the whole phone though. He tells me that I need to just trust him, and I said my trust doesn’t work that way, that it needs to be earned. He also said he will never change his social media to pictures of just us. However, he introduced me to several colleagues and friends. I really want to trust him, but my trust with him wavers. Even my gut and my head are very confused, some days I fully trust him and some days I feel like I’m going crazy.