Guilt after unknowingly sleeping with a married man
I slept with this guy while on vacation and the next morning I see him by the pool with a woman and two young children. I had no idea he was married when I had decided to sleep with him, and am feeling a ton of emotions after seeing his family. Im quite confident it was not cosigned by her so to speak, so let’s just assume that it was indeed cheating.
I recognize that I am not really the one at fault here, I guess I could have explicitly asked if he was married, but really I think he should have told me that. Still, I feel guilty for being a part of it? I feel a need to understand why he would do something like that (I recognize I won’t get answers, and am also struggling with accepting this reality). If anyone has had a similar experience, I’d love to hear how you felt and dealt with those feelings.
Thanks in advance for the advice.
Making a little edit here for some context:
I am a guy, so that adds a bit of depth to this as well. I, and seemingly he, are not open about our sexualities. I have since left the resort so I won’t be able to tell the wife. I also didn’t get any name/information from him so really there is nothing more I can do.
Second edit:
Thanks again to everyone who shared their thoughts. It was good to have a sounding board for how I have been feeling about this.