u/ImpossibleIsland3941

M24 / f20 I started talking to this woman abt 2 months ago. I like her, she has a good work ethic and I feel she holds me accountable . I want to be able to grow with someone. The only thing is she is not at church like that. As I am. I don’t want to change anyone but I like this girl. The woman you choose to marry is one of the most important decisions a man can make. I don’t want to regret anything in the future. But I’m concerned about the future with how I raise my kids. Also I am struggling to fight against my flesh with this girl. I have slept with her but I am still outing myself and her in situations that are not good for any of us since I want to wait for marriage. Is this a no brainer?

‘M24’ -‘f20’ .

I ‘M24’ started talking to this girl ‘F20’ her humor is definitely on the aggressive side and it’s cool and all I can keep up but sometimes it gets more than I’d like it to get because I can be sensitive to things. But she has joked abt my height a few times. I’m 5’5 , she’s like 4’11 or something. I don’t like admitting that it does sometimes bother me, because it’s like admitting a weakness. And I think it’s because it’s a romantic interest, I’d like my partner to not roast me in this way but if it was my friends I’m a lot more chill about it. I mentioned I wanted to put a boundary on this matter and I wasn’t really met with understanding but rather more jokes around it. I didn’t like it. I was in a vulnerable position and I wasn’t met with understanding or open mindedness. She wasn’t really taking it seriously and she got upset that I was not messing with her joking responses.

We’ve been talking for about a month and some change. Is this something that can be communicated and fixed? the way the matter was handled OTP was akward and weird . Lmk what yall think?