Bought a plane ticket to the other side of the world for her
So long story short, a few weeks back i went on a solo trip and met a woman who was also traveling alone. We started talking and had a really fun day, so we decided to travel together for the remaining time, and everything was so nice. Because we had such a great time together, I was a little held back to make a move, but she became more and more flirty and on the last day we slep together. The next day, we flew back home, but I live in Belgium and she lives in China.
You would think the story would end here, but it happens to be so that I was already planning to go to China this summer with my friends, before I met her. And because the girl and me had such a good time on our trip, we talked about seeing each other again in China and she was very exited about it.
Since our trip, we had contact over text and facetimed a few times, and it was very fun and friendly. We talked about me coming to Beijing (my friends have already been there so they go to Hong Kong while I go to her in Beijing), and she even offered to pay for a hotel near her dormitory.
I was pretty held back to book the plane ticket, but since everything felt so positive with her and sometimes you just have to take a risk, I told her I was going to book the ticket.
The problem is that since I booked it, we haven’t talked anymore and when I texted her last week if she wanted to facetime again, she hasn’t responded yet. Now i’m usually not the type of person to go crazy over being ignored over text, but since I booked a fucking ticket to China to see her, it’s kinda driving me nuts, because I keep thinking about her ghosting me completely and then I have to spend a few days alone in Beijing instead of in Hong Kong with my friends. Not the end of the world, but I really had a great feeling with her together on our trip and it would make me so sad if she would ruin that feeling by ghosting me instead of just saying I shouldn’t come see her in Beijing.
So like I said, I asked her to facetime last week and she didn’t respond at all, what should I do? I don’t want to text her again too soon but I also don’t want to wait too long, it wouldn’t be so important to me if I had not bought a plane ticket to her city. I might be overreacting, but I just can’t stop thinking about it.
What would you do in this situation?