I think I fully truly dislike my in laws
They’ve never actively done anything wrong or to me. They’re just so rude. Like, not catty shitty comments. But selfish and inconsiderate. They’re kind, but they just really only think about themselves. It’s just the brusque attitude when they’re not interested in something, they don’t listen to you when you speak, take the last drink out of the fridge without a thought, WILDLY impatient, uninterested when something’s not about them type of rude. This is mostly his dad and sister, but his mom isn’t too far off, though she notices it and will complain about it to me at times. She’s just also quietly judgmental about every other person. My husband has some of these traits, but notices it and hates it and apologizes for it and it’s much much better when he’s not around them, though it shows up again when he is. We live a few hours away so we’re not always together but his parents have made comments about moving closer to us once we have kids. NO! we just did a week with them and I was so angry and frustrated, feeling dismissed at times and just biting my tongue constantly. It feels like I crossed a new threshold with them that I can’t take. How did I end up in a marriage with a family like this who I think I officially cannot stand