Fiance keeps comparing my body to other woman
I am a fairly confident 30 year old woman. My partner has consistently compared me to other woman’s breast sizes and has told me on several occasions he prefers double d breast. I have recently broken up with him and ended the relationship because he has lied on several occasions saying he didn’t mean it , only to discover the commentary to start up again about dd breast and i see it as a form of emotional abuse. He constantly picks at the dresses I wear and asks why I’m not wearing Clevage or using sticky bras to have severe Clevage. I am a 36c
On one occasion he has said “ if i was single again i would choose dd breast , something different “
That comment was very painful to me. He himself is 5’6 and 250 lbs.
Several people have called me immature for not accepting this emotional abuse and childish behavior HE HAS.
I got so drained and tired of feeling like i wasn’t good enough when I know i was. Prior to this i have never had problems with my breast size when it comes to men. I am happy without Clevage or a sticky bra or push up bra.
How is everyone saying im in the wrong for ending this relationship for feeling emotionally abused ?
I do not want to be with someone who’s so boob obsessed that they constantly making me feel put down. It’s gotten to the point where I considered a boob job and that’s NEVER like me. I have always been happy and confident on how i am. I see nothing wrong with my breast at all. I can’t fake or take a lifetime of feeling unworthy especially a partner who’s unfit when I’m fit and I’ve never held that against him .