Dreading the Return of a Coworker
I've worked with a lot of people at my job. I've gotten along with most if not all people there(the ones I didn't like/who didn't like me left or were let go), but there's been ONE person that I absolutely cannot stand. We'll call her B
To preface, I'm sex positive to sex indifferent but I have very hard limits that I am firm on. I'm a big supporter of sexual freedom and I believe that people should do whatever they want with whoever, I just don't like it when people go into graphic detail about it.
B is one of those people who go into graphic detail about their sex life. There's always drama or stories about her escapades and whatnot. She's very outspoken about her desires to everyone willing to listen, even on the clock. There were even times where she walked into work yelling "WHAT'S UPPP, BITCHESSSS!!!"
Because of this, we have NEVER gotten along. When people do go on rants about who they sleep with and all that jazz, I simply walk away or zone out if I can't remove myself(if it gets too much I speak up). When I do this with B, she takes it as a slight against her, calls me rude, and gets uppity about it. This has resulted in numerous visits to my boss about my "rude behavior with staff", as she always reports me for not wanting to socialize with her.(we work 3rd shift, so we don't interact with administrators much)
There was a time where I was working with B, and she was going on about a date she went on the night before and how it ended with very crappy intercourse, and then she said bluntly "So, how's your sex life been?" I was baffled. How could you ask that to someone you don't know personally, let alone a coworker? My response was: "I don't do that, I prefer to keep my life private." B immediately says "Oh. So thats how it is." as if she couldn't fathom that kind of answer. From then on, she's always been snippy to me whenever I walk away or zone out/ignore her stories, and complains to others that I "won't let her be herself", or thinks I'm better than her. It doesn't help that she's an exceptional worker, and everyone likes her.
I've never had a good experience with her until she left for university, but whenever she returns in the summer, its the same thing.
Well, after being away for 2yrs, shes back again. I'm dreading it. It's none of her business to know that I'm aroace, so I don't want to tell her, period. I don't want to deal with her for the summer months.