My GF has depression, how can I best help her?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for two years. We're both in our twenties, we met in our master's degree. After finishing, finding a job was really hard in our field.
Eventually, she who came to study and stayed a bit longer because we started dating, had to leave the city to go back to her hometown as she wasnt finding any job and her family business needed support. So we've been long distance since.
The last three months she was here, looking for a job, took a stoll on her mental health. I thought that was her lowest point, but when getting back home things went even worse.
She started therapy back in december. She had already met that doctor before (as some years ago she had already been diagnosed with depression, but she moved to study, got a bit better and stopped therapy). I know she has some medication prescripted. She meets her weekly. But I can't see any improvement in her condition. Seems like her mind and mood just get worse every passing week and im really worried.
She can't see a future for her self. She feels stuck. Unable to move on. She can't fanthom a future for her own life nither our life together.
This week, she asked if we should break up. She feels like a burden, and said she doesent even know what she really wants.
I told her she aint any burden. I wanna stay by her side, support and love her even if she is in a really difficult place right now. But I know I can't do much as real change must come from her insides...
How can I support her? How can I help her? Is there anything I can do? Is our relationship really doomed? Would breaking up even solve anything? I really worry for her well being and her health above all else....