Am I a bad friend?
Ok so I'm a junior and I have these friends we'll call strawberry and blueberry. I've known these two since middle school and they were best friends,strawberry gets a boyfriend then breaks up with said boyfriend (who was another friend of mine) and that boyfriend goes with blueberry. It's very messy and I don't know the full story. Strawberry told me he cheated as he and blueberry would draw inappropriate images while being very touchy and even watching porn (behind strawberry's back).I noticed this touchy closeness they had but was dismissive as why would my friends go ahead and do this knowing the other one was in a relationship. At the time blueberry had a girlfriend and they broke up making her really sad which I guess led to them getting together as boyfriend and strawberry also broke up. Now I'm still close with those three as they are all my friends but getting with your best friends boyfriend is messed up and weird on the boyfriends side. Apparently blueberry said "please don't be mad" and I feel like she didn't mean Ill intent as one can't control their feelings but keeping it secret was odd. I'm their friends but am I not a loyal enough friend if I still talk with the three of them? It's been a year and I'm definitely closer with strawberry now but I still occasionally see blueberry and boyfriend. I know it's not my business but should I stop talking to them? Am I too nice? I want to be a good person not just nice.