Taken from my “ideal man” notes app. (I’m using the word ideal here, but realistically I don’t know if I could compromise on any of these.) I’d love to hear feedback about whether such a mythical man exists or if I am delusional 🙂 This is not an assurance seeking post, I’m genuinely curious if this list is too ambitious.
Generous
Loves talking to me
Vocally emotive
Likes lifting weights
Curious
Sexually dominant
Physically touches me a lot
Thoughtful (about himself, the world, etc)
Mature
Good judgment
Takes responsibility where warranted
Open-minded
Doesn’t have a temper
Warm
Has a good attitude about life
Overlap in values
Sees the best in me
I’m his sexual and physical type
Funny
As competent and analytical as me
Truly monogamous
Not super preoccupied by hot women
Only likes women his own age
Anti porn
Respects and feels enthralled by me
Likes my opinions and yapping
No video games
Possesses willpower
Stable
Takes care of himself
Deeply honest — not sentimental
Self deprecating
Focuses on others, naturally
Broad shouldered
At least 5’10”
Has some grit and backbone
Doesn’t whine
Finds my pleasure/orgasm hot; prioritizes it
Verbal
Says surprising things bc he has an interesting mind