Discussing some recent comments
Guys I dislike Cameron so much now and I have a multitude of problems with him.
My issues with Cam include that they look like they don’t focus on hygiene anymore. They act cringy, have picked horrible mannerisms from Cody and probably some cringe teens on the internet, sound stupid, lie, and are negligent to their kids. I have also come to the horrible conclusion that they exaggerate their DV story. They also make horrible videos on YT now, which I would anyway not encourage you to watch but basically it is just a big sponsorship segment with some other stupid sprinkled here and there.
What I don’t have a problem with is how they keep their hair, what kind of shorts/trunks/speedos they wear, what pronouns they use.
Some recent comments have been really poor-
why is Cameron shirtless? They had boobs, I feel weird.
Why is Cameron wearing speedos? I hate men who wear those.
Their clothes must mean they are detransitioning.
Your messed up ideas on clothes and bodies are yours to deal with, please don’t push them on others.
I understand Cameron’s case is quite nuanced, I don’t even mind discussing the possibility of their trauma initially making them wanna run away from whoever they were at the time they went through those things. I fully believe cam is actually a misogynist himself. What I don’t want is for us to regress as a society. Clothes and hairstyles don’t define genders. Breasts are just a part of our bodies which about half the human population have and we don’t need to act like silly boys about it.
Yes I think Cam and a lot of their family and friends dress and act rather poorly. It’s tasteless at best and trashy at worst. Idk if this is just a cultural difference or what but sure I accept having opinions on it too. But they have so many flaws to discuss on this snark page, why are we focused on stupid stuff like them wearing speedos. I even understand thinking that they look bad in certain things or it feels counterintuitive when they have been trying to look more manly, but that’s one thing, drawing crazy conclusions like they must be detransitioning is something else. And yes telling somebody who transitioned/ changed their styles etc etc that they looked better before is completely unnecessary.
Having questions and wanting to understand more about trans experiences is completely understandable but let’s be more respectful about it. You might not like Cam but the hate you put out in the world will not be limited to Cameron and will harm loads of other people.
Ready to be downvoted T-T