Repaired relationships?
Maybe this isn’t the subreddit for this but has anyone tried to or successfully repaired their relationship with their IL’s to be semi positive? If so, how was that possible for you?
My IL’s aren’t evil or anything but there’s plenty of unhealthy family dynamics, selfishness, lack of accountability, invasiveness and boundary crossing.
I’ve never had a falling out with my IL’s but there’s been talks amongst themselves that it seems I don’t like them much. In reality I just don’t react or respond to things I find annoying or invasive questions or mind games. I think my MIL specifically has tried to put some effort into the relationship but it’s always in ways like trying to mother me basically which I can’t stand because I view this relationship as we are both two adults and I don’t view her as a mother.
I’m not sure how to proceed I feel like I’m in a limbo with people who don’t really benefit my life, cause me stress, but also aren’t horrible so every visit is just me getting through and dodging questions that feel like a police interrogation. 😅