▲ 11 r/socialanxiety
I (25M) believe I am an interesting person, but when I'm in social situations I sometimes feel like I have nothing to say in general, even though that's not true.
Today a girl was looking at me at a club, I could tell she was a bit interested, but I just froze, why can't I just be spontaneous for once?
I feel like I'm always in fight or flight mode, for some reason making that first step is so hard for me.
I struggle with this in general with strangers, but especially with people I find attractive the fear is so high why am I like this 😭😭
Sorry for the rant.
u/InItinere — 20 days ago