My (M22) gf (F22) explained why she won't have sex ever. How can I lose my sex drive to match hers?
We've been dating for 6 months now, I won't find any girl that is more beautiful and smart than her. We're very close, and spend time a lot. The only big problem that's making us feel seperated is the mismatch of our sexual drives. I see sex as something that makes me feel desired and wanted, but she doesn't like it one bit. We've done it 3 times before, which affirmed her belief that sex is pointless as intercourse makes her hurt a lot on top of her anxiety on getting pregnant.
She has said numerous time since that she will never have sex even after married, and lets me do it with other girls as long as I don't "bug" her to have sex. I feel shattered by this responce. I don't have any intention on doing it with strangers just to feel good if I don't have any feelings for them.
So the only way to make this relationship work would be me losing my sexual interest whatsoever entirely. How do I do that? Any tips and methods would be appriecated.