I27M live with my gf, and another girl “Pat”25. My gf and I started out as friends and roommates, and she worked with Pat, and Pat came to live with us after we started dating and my moved into my room. She has for a little over a year now. There is one upstairs bedroom, I have always had the downstairs bedroom since I’ve lived here. I like my room and I have a bad knee and it’s nice not going up the stairs. I also work til late and I am able to come in without disturbing anyone.
Pat is a few months pregnant, I think around 7 or 8 months. She has a bump anyways, and is always complaining about walking up the stairs. She had recently asked me and my gf about switching rooms with her, and explained it was really starting to hurt her back and that when the baby was here it was going to be even harder with the stairs and a newborn. I told her I didn’t want that, and she continued asking and said it would only be for a few months. (Our lease is up in August, and my gf and I decided we wanted to get our own place together.) I told her I wouldn’t be switching rooms with her for a few months just because she got herself pregnant. She didn’t like that and we argued some. She basically said I wasn’t thinking on how much easier it’d be and I probably wouldn’t hear the baby from upstairs, and I said I probably wouldn’t hear the baby downstairs either?
She hasn’t talked to us much, and everytime she goes up the stairs she’s super dramatic about. My gf feels bad for her but I told her it wasn’t fair on us to switch rooms for her. AITA