u/IncreaseAggravating1

I (25M/Cap) have been falling for someone (26F/Virgo) who plans on moving away by the end of the year..

For context, we matched on a dating app about 1.5 months ago and have seen each other about 5 times; we’ve gone on two dates and three chill hangouts at each others place basically body doubling, doing crafts together, making music, cooked meals for her, and having deep meaningful conversations.

When we first started messaging, I asked for more information about what exactly she’s looking for (her profile had short-term relationship & non-monogamous), and she said she plans on moving away when her lease is up. I didn’t think too much of it, I was still casually dating another person at the time (we’re no longer seeing each other). Although, I have noticed myself falling for this person more and more as we continue to see each other. I know myself enough that if this continues, the feelings will just grow stronger and I’ll have to bring that up at some point.

I’m also very aware that this is still the “honeymoon phase” but I’m happy to say we’re already building great habits of communication, willing to hear the other person out, slow to anger, patience, giving each other grace, and meeting them to some common ground.

I kinda just want some opinions on what you think it is I should do or keep in mind? Also, I am willing to do long distance (I’ve done it before & didn’t have a problem with it)

Again, it is still very new and there are plenty of months to see each other before she moves away. I just haven’t been this compatible with another person from the start and it seems we’re aligned in a bunch of areas in our lives.

Also comment any other questions for context, I’d be willing to share more if it helps.

Thank you!

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u/IncreaseAggravating1 — 3 days ago

I (25M) might be developing a crush on someone (26F) that is moving away by the end of the year..

For context, we matched on a dating app about 1.5 months ago and have seen each other about 5 times; we’ve gone on two dates and three chill hangouts at each others place basically body doubling, doing crafts together, making music, cooked meals for her, and having deep meaningful conversations.

When we first started messaging, I asked for more information about what exactly she’s looking for (her profile had short-term relationship & non-monogamous), and she said she plans on moving away when her lease is up. I didn’t think too much of it, I was still casually dating another person at the time (we’re no longer seeing each other). Although, I have noticed myself falling for this person more and more as we continue to see each other. I know myself enough that if this continues, the feelings will just grow stronger and I’ll have to bring that up at some point.

I’m also very aware that this is still the “honeymoon phase” but I’m happy to say we’re already building great habits of communication, willing to hear the other person out, slow to anger, patience, giving each other grace, and meeting them to some common ground.

I kinda just want some opinions on what you think it is I should do or keep in mind? Also, I am willing to do long distance (I’ve done it before & didn’t have a problem with it)

Again, it is still very new and there are plenty of months to see each other before she moves away. I just haven’t been this compatible with another person from the start and it seems we’re aligned in a bunch of areas in our lives.

Also comment any other questions for context, I’d be willing to share more if it helps.

Thank you!

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u/IncreaseAggravating1 — 4 days ago