Of course, iba-iba naman, but as someone who used to be there a couple of times, here is some shit I wished people did for me. Try niyo lang sa someone na kilala niyong suicidal. It might help.

• Listen without judgment. Ask if they need advice or not.
• Provide reassurances. 'Wag 'yung cliché; make sure you mean it straight from your heart. Genuine. I get that it's hard to avoid clichés, but to a suicidal mind, these clichés are empty (even if they aren't).
• Reach out or kamustahin niyo. Even a simple "Uy, musta ka? What are you up to?" really helps, especially if they're feeling alone or neglected.
• Invite them to activities they enjoy to distract them, and find ways to make them realize what they'll miss out on (in a non-obvious way). Mas may bearing kasi 'pag ginagawa mo siya naturally and 'di 'yung halatang "kapag nag-suicide ka, ito mami-miss mo." 'Wag super direct; more on like you're planting seeds.
• If they rant or complain about ANYTHING—no matter how small—entertain niyo without judgment. Show that you give a shit. Either ask niyo more about it or why they feel that way, then either do something to see if you can compromise or, if not, try to explain why it is the way it is.
• On the other hand, the most ridiculous, mundane shit can also turn things around and "snap" them back from suicidal ideations. One time, I was so sure of killing myself, so I ate some sushi as my last meal; but shit was so good, I suddenly thought, "Nah, fuck this shit, I wanna live my life and eat more yummy food," and that kept me going.
• To someone with suicidal ideations, the slightest, most pathetic, nonsense shit may just be the one last straw, so take everything seriously but don't be so obvious about it. For me kasi, mas nawawalan ng validity if naramdaman kong you're just saying or doing something cuz you think I'm killing myself otherwise.
• At the same time, respect their privacy and social energy. I get na ang hirap balansehin nung "invite them outside" or "do shit they like," and hirap i-discern kasi baka naman gusto talaga ng alone time lang nung tao para makapag-isip. It really requires someone who knows the person well to really distinguish when and when not to.
• If they're suddenly happy, take it with a grain of salt. Don't act all suspicious, but don't rain on their parade either. Either they're feeling genuinely happy today (maybe a good manic episode or a dopamine boost from coffee), or they're happy because they've finally decided to kill themselves (there's a certain happiness in knowing you're leaving it all behind, so you kind of do a "one last hurrah" of everything fun).
• Think morbid. Predict how they're gonna kill themselves. Remove anything in their bedroom's ceiling that they can use to hang themselves and be vigilant with their travel plans. They may already be planning to jump somewhere, so just be vigilant without spooking them. Yes, easier said than done.
• Find ways to make them go outside or be physically active, but don't be obvious that you're doing it to help them.

Fight on.

I ordered 2 food items and 1 beverage. Nagulat ako na they removed the fried rice without informing me or asking kung ano ang pwedeng ipalit.

Kinausap ko sila over the phone. Sabi ko dalawa kasi kakain niyan, so walang makakain ngayon 'yung isa. Was upset na hindi nila ako sinabihan man lang.

Wala man lang apology 'yung staff, paulit-ulit lang na "Wala na kaming kanin kanina pa eh." Sabi ko, "Okay, pero available sa GrabFood 'yung item, so malay ko ba?"

Ayaw din i-cancel, "Ay, nabalot na eh," tapos biglang binalik 'yung phone sa rider. WTF.

'Yung rider, nag-offer naman na mag-add order, abonohan na lang niya then bayaran ko. Sabi ko huwag na kasi lahat ng pera ko nasa CC, pero thank you kako.

Ending, pinakuha ko na lang para hindi masayang ang punta ni kuya rider. I made it clear naman na hindi ako galit doon sa rider.

Kahit abot naman nila, ang kaso nanonood lang.

Ayun na nga eh, bobo ka talaga, bakit ang layo niyo lagi?

'Di ko gets mga ganitong player. Pag naman sila inantay ko, wala namang nangyayari. Walang push, walang engage, walang kahit ano. Kung ano-ano lang ginagawa. Walang direksyon, walang objective. Tapos pag nag-engage, nanonood lang.

So, nugagawen? Magsasayaw na lang ba tayo? Ano na?

Pansinin niyo lahat nung mga naka-pang-FB profile pic—'yung mga selfie o kaya family picture pa minsan (tangina talaga). Pagpunta mo sa profile, 'yan 'yung mga highest rank Epic, tapos kamote pa galawan pati ugali. Iyakin dahil na-ban ang hero, tapos 'di pa marunong sa role.

Hulaan niyo na lang din sa itsura nila kung mukhang taga-saang archipelago sila ng Pilipinas. Sa mga high horse kuno diyan... i-on niyo voice chat. To hear/see is to believe.