u/Independent-Band2656

My baby has been in my bed since 6 weeks she’s about to turn 5 months
Life started out a bit rough we had to move out of the home I brought her to and stay at her grandparents
Long story short I really struggled so when it got to her refusing her crib I didn’t fight it and we’ve bedshared
She wants to be on the boob all night unless I sleep with her on my chest but my back is aching
Can I transition her? She can fall asleep to lullabies but startles so much and looks for boob
But I’m extremely overstimulated to a point it makes me want to quit breastfeeding
Can I change this? Please give me ideas and hope