I live in uni halls with a couple of others and every so often I’ll open my cupboard to find something has been used, typically it’s only been cutlery or mugs.
I know this isn’t a big deal in the grand scheme of things but I did say to please ask me if you need to borrow anything which was agreed to. It’s bugging me that they didn’t ask, or even leave me a text saying they had borrowed one of my mugs (as it seemed to be overnight, so I wasn’t awake).
Anytime I open my cupboard to something missing, something inside me gets quite irritated as I like knowing where my things are (also I don‘t really like sharing my stuff, never have really).
It’s also not that sort of ‘what’s mine is yours’ kitchen expect some essentials like bin bags for example.
Not exactly sure how to go around this, especially as I said to ask me first before borrowing my stuff a few days ago. I’m also someone who likes to keep the peace and I can’t be fucked to deal with drama.
(and yes I’m aware in uni halls stuff like this will happen, and that these things are easy to replace but I’d rather not have to do that)