I have a conflict in general, and not a specific question but overall I could really use some advice. I currently have a very kind and respectful boyfriend, he doesnt push me into anything that I dont want to do and overall likes getting intimate with me. He's very different from other guys i've dated because he doesnt usually tell me im beautiful or hot during intimacy or anything related. I don't think he's not atracted to me. But I do care for reasurance and overall words and verbal affection really turn me on but I don't want to tell him because I feel like I would think he's only doing it because I asked him to. He's doesnt really communicate, mostly because i know he doesnt really know how to. So sex tends to be very standard and not that playfull. Please help me.
u/IndependentHungry550
Im a very sexually active person with my boyfriend, he seems to like me yet I think he might not be as sexually hungry as I am, we havent had a very long relationship which is why I think I'm not really comfortable enough to discuss other ways of sex that go out from the typical penetration. I've gone down on him a few times and he seems to enjoy it. Doesnt stop me or tells me to do something different, yet he also doesn't ASK ME TO. I haven't asked him to go down on me because im frankly a lil embarrased because im not shaved down there and I understand that some men just don't like to do it and that's fine. He doesnt usually communicate things as much as other guys ive been with, so I guess my questions in general are:
Do men usually like going down? Should I keep doing it and maybe ask him to? Is it because im not shaved?