Stuck Working With The Man Who Discarded Me While Mom Was in ICU
I’ve finally started to heal and get over him and the whole discard. Though I do still feel sad from time to time, and wonder if he wants me back at all. That being said……
We still work together. Things came to a head last month, and he hasn’t talked to me since. He tried to get me fired. I haven’t attempted to speak to him, and won’t. He won’t even respond when I kindly tell him to have a good day as I’m leaving (trying to be the bigger person and also let him know I’m leaving for the day). The only time I’ve had to speak to him, he turned away from me and stayed silent. I had to ask if he heard me three times to even get a response that he’d heard me. He comes in angry, fails to do anything that seems to help me with opening the next day, and doesn’t communicate about things that should be communicated about when it comes to work. All of these things that can be easily explained, making me look like a liar if I mention it to management. It’s a small business, so there are no cameras and the owners aren’t the smartest. Therefore, he is able to manipulate them. He told the owners I was refusing to leave work and attempting to get back together with him. This was when he was bread-crumbing me. I fell for it. I wasn’t refusing to leave, I was sitting in my car talking on the phone with a family member or just sitting in my car before I made my hour commute home. His bitch of a mother has even come swimming a few times during my shift, stared at me the whole time while in the nasty baby pool, and then left shortly after I did. My coworker let me know it wasn’t even 10 minutes after I left that she did.
I can’t even find another job, and this one pays very, very well. I just got another raise too. I’m documenting everything in case I do end up unemployed, I’m just stuck. The job market is awful, and I can’t afford to quit until I find something else. I am a full-time student doing everything on my own.
I think I just wanted to vent. I’m not really sure. My circle is tired of hearing about it.