A question for married men over 40.
I’m a married woman (40) and told my husband that I want to be spanked. He has only done it twice since I practically begged him to, once pretty tame and once was exactly what I asked for, a good hard over the knee spanking until my bottom was red. I told him before what I wanted and after how good it felt to me and that I’ll tell him if it ever goes past getting me turned on. It’s like he satisfies me in every other way but this one thing, is there a way to get him into it? I like getting dressed up and role playing, sending him sexy pics, being tying up, stuff like that, we have an active sex life but probably pretty vanilla to most. I fantasize about the last time he spanked me (yes I fantasize about my husband) I know he got turned on from it but hasn’t done it again. I would love to have regular spankings, weekly or even monthly sessions (and willing to try whatever new things he wants) but although he is good in bed, i really want this too. I don’t want him to do anything if he really doesn’t want to, am I just being selfish asking? Any guys get into their wife’s “kink” after being together a long time? Do husbands think their wives aren’t satisfied if they ask for something new or different?