What would you do?
I need advice because I'm stuck and don't know what to do.
I have been friends with my best friend for over 15 years, I'm 33 and she is 36. Back 2 years ago she flat out ignored me for 6 months because her partner was jealous of our friendship, after that 6 months she just started calling again but less frequently, won't answer when I call and only calls when the other half isn't around. She was normally a pretty selfish friend, only wanting to speak about her life dramas etc, when I bring up something she changes the subject and shows no interest, she has always been like this but it has now gotten worse. Recently she wanted to quickly withdraw a large amount of money from a term deposit and said she couldn't do that without evidence of a debt, she asked if I would use my ABN to write a fake invoice so she could access those funds without waiting. I said no because I didn't want that coming back on me somehow and I was getting a little over being there for her with all her dramas and getting totally ignored when she doesn't need a shoulder to cry on or someone to listen to her vent about her shitty af partner. Now she is ignoring me worse than before and posting absolutely ridiculous shit on Facebook that is directed at me. I just don't know what to do because on one hand I'm pulled by loyalty to just ignore it but on the other hand I just can't do it anymore and I want to delete her off facebook and block her number because i don't understandhow its my fault she couldn't access money from the account. Problem is I'm worried about the backlash from deleting her, she has a very vindictive type personality and to be honest I can't be bothered with the drama and BS. My question to you is: what would you do? How would you handle this? Would you not worry about the backlash or would you just keep her on facebook to keep the peace?