u/Independent_Cry_8756

My fiancé and I have a decent age gap. We have a 3 year old together. My fiancé however has a long time celiac diagnosis. He’s never been “good” despite eating strictly gluten free. He always has stomach issues and is depressed. To the point I understand he’s not doing well but it heavily affecting my mental health and ability to care for myself and fear that will trickle to my daughter. After a big fight with me trying to pull away, he breaks down saying he hasn’t been good and doesn’t want to be a burden.

He doesn’t eat the greatest though or live the healthiest lifestyle. im doing my best to keep us eating healthy and active, I’m trying to get him to see a doctor but and starting to spiral at how much work this is all going to be and I’m not sure if he’s willing to try. He tends to feel he knows his body better than medical advice but look where we are.

Is there anything a hospital can do for severe damage? Am I going to spend the rest of my life trying to take care of someone that doesn’t care?