I joined a new place after a long time and it's a mix of fresh and experienced folks. From the first day I have been with two other ladies from the QA team. Lady 1 was with me and Lady 2 joined us the next day. Lady 1 bonded with Lady 2, but completely ignored me since them.
It's been a month, we go to dinners together as I work the night shift. I am third wheeling them, my thoughts ignored or cut off. Forced to eat junk food but having a hard time saying no to not offending Lady 1.
Thing is I have been labelled aloof so I tried my hardest in previous to be frdly but they ghosted the moment I left tat company. I am better off with myself but will be called aloof and such as all r younger folks and i don't have finances to keep up with them as I have responsibilities.
Posting this because Lady 1 and I walk towards our boarding point everyday. Yesterday she walked ahead ignoring me completely with her cab friend.
I want to cut things off but I don't want them to spread anything negative about me.