u/Independent_Judge47

Is live in maid a good job in Chennai or it's better in Blr?

Unmarried Early 30s can work as live in maid? Mainly because I need a place to stay, an income source and safer option.

Resume is pretty bad right now and I need money and a place to stay until I fix the skill gap.

I'm looking for a 20k range. I am a graduate n experienced professional but not ready for corporate due to bad experiences. I have a non-IT background so I need time to find a long term career without affecting my employment history.

What do I need to know?

Pros are stay and zero commute. Safety. I am clueless about the rest. Should I go to Bangalore for better opportunities? Anyone who has maids, what are expected and what questions should I be prepared for?

PS: I am trying to leave my family for personal reasons. I am from Chennai as well. Why thinking if it's better to move to another city?

I joined a new place after a long time and it's a mix of fresh and experienced folks. From the first day I have been with two other ladies from the QA team. Lady 1 was with me and Lady 2 joined us the next day. Lady 1 bonded with Lady 2, but completely ignored me since them.

It's been a month, we go to dinners together as I work the night shift. I am third wheeling them, my thoughts ignored or cut off. Forced to eat junk food but having a hard time saying no to not offending Lady 1.

Thing is I have been labelled aloof so I tried my hardest in previous to be frdly but they ghosted the moment I left tat company. I am better off with myself but will be called aloof and such as all r younger folks and i don't have finances to keep up with them as I have responsibilities.

Posting this because Lady 1 and I walk towards our boarding point everyday. Yesterday she walked ahead ignoring me completely with her cab friend.

I want to cut things off but I don't want them to spread anything negative about me.