u/Independent_Most3265

I fucked up and I genuinely don't know what to do. I (F29) started dating someone (N19) very recently. I originally thought they were 20, and I realize that too is also very young, and I assumed their dating profile was correct and didn't think to double-check. I also don't think I realized how much of an age gap there was, and by the time it truly hit me I had already said and done things I can't take back. I don't know how I should go about making any of this right. I truly care for this person, but we are in such different parts of our lives, and I can't just abandon them. They've been through a lot relationship wise, and I don't want to be another person who just leaves after getting what they want. I fully want to take responsibility for this, but I need direction. Please help.