Do you catch people staring at you?
Hi, so I have a cleft lip that has affected my nose and my lip of course. I have had multiple surgeries. A jaw surgery to fix my underbite and I had a nose surgery twice. It looks pretty good but I don’t think it’s 100% and I’m thinking of getting another surgery but I honestly don’t believe that whatever I get 100% fix what I have and I just want to know from everyone else’s experiences that have gone through no matter how hard you were to achieve perfection and will never be 100% and if anyone else out there has dealt with double takes by people who just look at you and then look at you again I just feel it’s kind of rude and there’s nothing I can do or anyone else can do about it which even hurts me even more because I feel if I say something, they have the power to hold back and say what are you talking about? I just feel at this point in my life how much I have tried to be happy. I don’t think I will ever forever be 100%. I just want to live my life to the fullest with the people that love me but also be out there to be confident and meet someone that I would love for the rest of my life. Has anyone else dealt with this experience? I would love to hear from you guys.