u/Independent_Row5638

Is it normal to have never been in a relationship?

Is it normal to have never been in a relationship and, on top of that, never even reached the holding hands stage?

Everyone around me is getting into relationships and I feel like I'm just watching it all happen.
In my 17 years of living no guy has ever asked me out.

Sure there may have been one or two talking stages here and there, but nothing past that.

And I fear it may be my fault, I don't really have the courage to make the first move, what if I get rejected, what if I'm not pretty enough?

My friends all have guys flooding their dms... As for me.. nothing. However, to be fair I may have high standards ( that's what my best friend tells me at least ).

Moreover I don't want to start a relationship through social media, I believe it's too superficial, and I don't really want it to be just with any guy ук?? Because what if I regret it later...

Anyway idk what to do here, should I just put myself out there or just wait until it's the right moment for me? Let me know.😔

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u/Independent_Row5638 — 6 days ago