Husband is choosing porn over me
I just want to start off by saying I’m not anti porn. But I’ve noticed my husbands sex drive started going down dramatically so I got curious and looked at his phone history and sure enough he’s been watching porn at least 4-6 times a week, almost everyday. And looking at pictures of young women like 18-23 in slutty dresses at parties. I tried confronting him about it because I have a high sex drive too and I want sex every day if I could have it but I feel neglected because he will go days without sex with me but will watch porn instead. I just don’t understand , and the porn he watches is of young looking women and I wonder if that’s the problem, I just turned 30 and am two months postpartum so I wonder if I am just too old now and he’s not attracted to me? When I try confronting him, he acts like it’s no big deal and like i have no reason to be upset. But I honestly feel neglected in that area of our life. Sorry if this is long winded, I’m just trying to gather all of my thoughts as this has been really bothering me.