u/Individual-Bar-5911

I don’t know what to do I just got out of a very toxic relationship a few months ago and I completely let my self go during it because I was just mentally exhausted I gained weight around like 40ibs and etc but now I’m in a new relationship and I wanna do better in every way possible and I don’t know where or how to start this girl is amazing in every way possible I wanna do anything and everything I can do to please her non sexually and sexually when we have been intimate I’ve only last a min or two I don’t understand what happened I used to last anywhere from 20-30 mins?