u/Individual-Sail-792

AITA for wanting to move out of my in laws house

I 22 F and my husband 24 M currently live with his parents, my husband his dad and brother travel for work and we are all staying in a 3bd 2 bath trailer for their job at the current location of the job , I am 10weeks pregnant and overstimulated and tired of being yelled at for being tired and overstimulated. In this trailer it is my husbands mom, dad their dog, his brother and his wife and 2 kids and their dog and me and my husband and his dog I want to get our own place to stay at while we’re here they usually split rent for the week to save money bc we pay weekly and they don’t have a monthly option since it is a campground place. Me him and our dog together he would only be paying 1190 a week and he makes more than enough to cover it but he don’t want to leave the place bc he wants to be close by we’d be like 4 trailers down I want my own kitchen to cook what I want when I want and do my own dishes how I want instead of having to clean up after 9people I don’t have free will to the living room area bc of the kids and other dogs since I also have chronic migraines that have became worse since being pregnant all the crying and barking make it worse. what can I do

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u/Individual-Sail-792 — 7 days ago

AITA for wanting to rehome my husbands dog

Hi everyone I’m 22 F with my husband 24 M I am currently pregnant with our first baby. About 2 months ago my husband got a puppy he is a black lab and now currently 5 months old, I didn’t want the puppy bc we are always traveling for his work and I’d be the one taking care of it 99% of the time which I am bc he works 7 days a week 12-16 hour shifts. I’m currently almost 4 months pregnant and can’t stand this dog he was completely house trained and was almost completely trained from everything else, about the last month or so he has completely went backwards he has been peeing and popping inside the house chewing on clothes and shoes he had tore up my boots my husbands boots belt and wallet he wines all day aswell. I am exhausted I have to wake up multiple times a night to clean up poo off the bed room floor after taking him out bc he refuses to potty outside now. I want to get rid of him so bad bc I can’t keep doing it I am so stressed out that my dr has sent me to a specialist for my blood pressure bc I’m so stressed from the dog , I am also allergic to said dog if he licks me or I pet him I break out in hives, every morning I wake up with my face nose and throat swollen and stopped up aswell as puffy eyes. I want my husband to be happy bc he loves the dog and the dog makes him happy but I can’t go on any longer with the dog. Me and him recently talked about rehoming him but his mom had to open her mouth and tell him he wanted it he keeps it I understand her point but I also don’t want to have to keep cleaning up dog poo and pee inside my house when I have a new born, the only tI’ve my husband spends with the dog is when he gets off work anywhere from 6:30pm to 9:30 pm when he comes to bed or when he has one day off every 3 weeks other than that I am fully raising said puppy alone and pregnant. How can I convince my husband to re home the dog ?

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u/Individual-Sail-792 — 7 days ago