u/IndividualPomelo2301

I didn’t realize how emotionally exhausted I was until I stopped blaming myself

For a long time I genuinely thought something was wrong with me I thought I was weak or lazy because I was tired all the time anxious for no clear reason and my mind never seemed to shut off even on days when nothing bad was happening I felt completely drained inside What made it worse was the constant guilt guilt for resting guilt for not being productive enough guilt for feeling bad when I had no obvious reason to feel that way I kept telling myself to push harder stop complaining and do more but the more I pushed the worse I felt What actually helped me wasn’t forcing myself to be positive or pretending everything was fine it was understanding that emotional exhaustion and overthinking are real things and that feeling like this doesn’t mean you’re broken It just means you’ve been carrying too much for too long I’m sharing this here in case someone else feels the same way because you’re not alone and you’re not failing you’re probably just exhausted

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u/IndividualPomelo2301 — 10 days ago

I didn’t realize how emotionally exhausted I was until I stopped blaming myself

For a long time I thought I was just weak or lazy I was tired all the time anxious for no clear reason and my mind never seemed to shut off even on days where nothing was really wrong I wasn’t sick and I didn’t have a diagnosis but I felt completely drained inside

What made it harder is that I kept telling myself to push through it to be more productive and to stop complaining but that only made me feel worse The guilt of resting was sometimes heavier than the exhaustion itself

What actually helped me wasn’t forcing myself to change but understanding what emotional exhaustion and overthinking really are and why they happen especially when you carry too much mentally for too long Reading about it made me feel less broken and less alone

I came across this article recently and it explained things in a calm non judgmental way without making it feel like something is wrong with you Sharing it here in case it helps someone else the way it helped me

u/IndividualPomelo2301 — 10 days ago