I’m 18F and I was supposed to go on a weekend trip with one of my friends (19F). We’ve been planning it for like 2 weeks, nothing super serious, just a short trip to hang out.
From the start I told her I’m on a budget and didn’t want to spend a lot. She said that was fine and we’d “keep it chill.”
Yesterday she sent me a breakdown of “costs” and it included stuff I never agreed to. Like she upgraded the hotel, added some activity package, and even included gas + food estimates split evenly.
The total she expected me to send her was way higher than what we originally talked about.
I told her I couldn’t afford that and she got annoyed and said I was “backing out last minute” and leaving her stuck paying more.
But I never agreed to any of those extra things in the first place.
It turned into a whole argument and now I’m thinking of just not going at all because it feels weird.
She’s acting like I’m screwing her over, but I feel like she made decisions without me and is now trying to make me pay for them.
Now I’m wondering if I’m overreacting by canceling instead of just trying to compromise.