u/Inevitable-Bat7353

Mil which is actually grandmother in law posted pictures of the twins after being asked not to she’s always trying to come between husband and me especially after he’s told her to go on. He’s been stressed from it and finding out she isn’t who she pretends to be like his poa we asked everywhere for it and can’t find it so we just revoked it anyway.

Husband has seizures and I think the stress of it all gave him one today. I felt horrible and I blame myself for getting so upset over her pushing the boundaries and causing us to get into an argument over her. He called her and she flat out said he hasn’t had this many seizures before (yes he has) and that he needs to leave our 6 month old twins and me and come back to her house. I just want to stay in my room and give up. I don’t know what to do I just want away from her for the rest of her life.

LOCATION: Oklahoma

Husband and I have told his mother several times to not post pictures of our children and share them and it got to the point she doesn’t get pictures nobody (husband or me) has sent them to her since they were 3 weeks old. Recently she posted them on Facebook as her profile picture. She is blocked on my account so someone had to have screenshot them and sent them and now they are her profile picture I reported the picture and so did my sister. Since she has been told several times to not do this is the next step a cease and desist?

Sorry this is probably more of a rant. I think husband and me should go to counseling. Husband blocked his mother about 6 weeks ago and now only talks to her on Thursdays for a few minutes because that’s just a boundary he needs.

His mother is way too much even tries to parent while not knowing what goes on in this house because she is blocked from talking to me and being around our kids. I also have her blocked on fb so she cannot see my posts and neither can anyone I’m not friends with. I post monthly updates of our twins since they were such a blessing to even get to have and of course what proud mother doesn’t post their children? It looks like I will have to stop though.

I am thinking it is his mother’s wife that is the rat that got the pictures and sent to mil. We have asked them not to post before and mil is a terrible person in general so she cannot be around the girls or me. She obtained a picture of the twins and is currently using it as her profile picture. My sister sent it to me since like I stated I blocked her. She really wanted to post something along the lines of her being a weird sick individual who is a total stranger to them and ask why are they on her profile. I showed my husband and he is not happy but he is also enmeshed with her and tries not to make a big deal out of things. He is still working on baby steps to get out of the brainwashing. One of the comments even asked who the babies belonged to and she just said my husband and didn’t include me. I thought it was funny that she posted them 5 months later and nobody knew about them…. Yeah, some grandma. Also I try to think of it as she won’t ever meet them they are with me and safe so that’s what truly matters but the blatant disrespect still eats at me.