Same as the title.
How do I confront him to stop this? He is always scratching his private parts, and there's no shame on his side.
Edit- I remember a young girl came to my house to play, and my father was scratching himself, and she shifted her eyes. It was hurtful for me to watch. How could he not stop himself?
I left a group whose base of friendship was their caste. I joined another group, and guess what? No matter how far I go escaping this thing, I'll go back to my house where our caste is our whole identity. My mother doesn't stop my brother when he makes such jokes and says that's what their caste is. I despise it.
I never realised the pros of caste until a friend asked if I'm general, and I replied to her, "Yes." What else do I have to feel superior about, tho? We're powerless fellows trying to supersede people in our own ways through our upper caste.
My question is, how do I explain and convince my mother and brother to stop this BS. I can't change others, but Charity definitely begins at home.
I was going to college and boarded the metro. After a few minutes, my butt felt cold, and I felt as if I had my periods. I was late, so I didn't even go to the washroom to check any stain. Straight away ran for my college. Initially, I thought of going back home but had a test, so I couldn't.
My shirt was tucked in, so I was hiding my butt with my hands. The whole day, I was just sitting on my bench. During break, I covered myself with my tiffin. I wonder if I was looking like a maniac. My stress was visible on my face since everyone asked me if I'm ok😭 I didn't even go to the washroom because I felt that my whole pants were stained and would end up being talk of hour.
I was stressed out the whole, which can't even be put into words. I had all the symptoms of having periods. I somehow reached home, and guess what? There wasn't even a single drop of blood. Not even a single stain. There was nothing. It was a prank by my body🥰so considerate after ruining my whole day.
My period is due tues, and I feel I might go through the same tmrw as well. I can't even put pad beforehand since my period is irregular, so I ain't even sure if it will come or not.
So my father is the sole earner in our family who earns 2LPA. I remember in 10 grade when I wanted to take tuition for science, he clearly refused. The fee was 500 per month. I understood the situation and never begged for tuition again.
Now my brother wants to leave his schl, the schl fee is around 1K per month(CBSE), and he wants to join a dummy schl whose fee is around 19K p.y. and the coaching fee is 35K p.y. I've a college as well, but the fee is nominal.
Now, hmo calculate the expenses. Is my father in his senses? He refused my tuition but is fully supporting my brother in this nonsense who literally failed his 11 class and now wants a dummy schl.
I remember during my college admissions, I was getting a Central uni whose total fee was around 40K p.y, and I refused to go keeping our financial condition in mind. I wish I had chosen myself back then. I thought of my family. I regret this. Is my father forgetting his salary? Does he want us to die of hunger? The thing is, my brother will still not study and waste his time like earlier.
I saw some reels saying they got govt msg and sirens.
And I didn't 😭 Does the govt think I ain't imp😔 issokyr
Even the govt made me feel left out, so does that mean govt is my frnd?(pun😍)
I'm also imp yawr, I need that alert, too. Silly people🙄
So for the first time ever, I'm gonna be alone at home for a week ig and that too with no school. I'm scared tbh. I might feel lonely as well. What should I be doing the whole time. Idek how to cook food except for Roti. Saw some recipe of Dal, and it was so confusing. I want people around me.
How was your experience? A girl in my neighbourhood has lived alone for a while as well, who's much younger than me. So it ain't that big deal ig.