AITA for distancing myself from a longtime friend after she dated a guy who posed in a Nazi uniform?
I’ve been friends with “Sarah” for many years. Recently she started dating a guy who had a photo of himself posing in a Nazi uniform in front of a swastika.
He did not post the picture online himself but we found it another way.
When I brought up how disturbing that was, she brushed it off and said he was “just really into World War II stuff.” I asked if he was antisemitic, and she hesitated before answering. She still chose to stay with him.
They recently broke up (for unrelated reasons), and she’s devastated and wants emotional support from me. But honestly, I lost a lot of respect for her when she knowingly stayed with someone who thought that’s okay.
I feel conflicted because we’ve been friends a long time, but I’m struggling to care the same way after seeing her values and judgment in this situation.
WIBTA if I ended a 15 year long friendship over this?