My therapist is making me feel worse
I dont know if this belongs here but I need help. My family is emotionally abusive, triggering meltdowns on purpose and laughing about it, when I told my therapist this she asked "if your dad autistic?" And since then every time I bring up the "jokes" the racism, the laughing at my crying the excuse the apologies with no changes she kept saying "oh well maybe they dont understand" "they mean well" "there's nothing to report" (im aware its not bad enough to report) "oh well I've heard other abuse stories and yours dont seem like that" "i met your mom she doesnt seem like that kinda person" I go to therapy because of truama from my family's emotional abuse and neglect and this therapist keeps saying they mean well and aren't bad people and I just need to communicate better cuz im autistic and probably dont communicate clearly. Idk, I just noticed the pattern of her just siding with them and making every excuse in the book and its making me think that im being dramatic and if a therapist is saying its not bad it must not be