I suspect my girlfriend is cheating again
Not long ago my girlfriend cheated on me but for some reason I’ve stuck around because I’m an idiot.
Yesterday she left her phone downstairs so I decided to go through it and found she had been messaging and talking to this guy. When I brought it up she claimed that he was gay and a friend of her sisters.
I’m from the uk she is from the states, so I have no idea who shes actually “friends” with or who she just says is a friend but is probably more.
Would any girls in their 20’s be able to help me out to get proof and follow the guy on Instagram and find out if he’s actually gay through a bit of back and forth messaging? As I cannot follow and message this guy myself as he knows who I am and would probably tell me what I want to hear.
I know it’s a bit much of me to ask this but she lost all my trust by cheating originally and lying about it, I just need to know now.