23M Bi Guy Looking For A Genuine Connection
Hey, I’m Dave. I’m a 23-year-old bi guy currently living in the UK. I’m light-skinned, pretty laid back, and honestly just hoping to meet someone real again.
I realized I was attracted to men when I was 19, and at 20 I met my first boyfriend shortly after moving to the UK. He was originally from Poland, and funny enough we met in a small coffee shop after arguing over whose order got mixed up. What started as an awkward interaction somehow became the best relationship I’ve ever had.
He was my best friend, my safe place, and the person who made even the most boring days feel special. We shared everything together — random late-night walks, stupid jokes, deep conversations at 3am, art museums, crying in each other’s arms after hard days, and even the little arguments couples have. Every moment with him felt real.
Unfortunately, I lost him to lung cancer toward the end of last year.
For a long time I felt like a part of me disappeared with him. I spent the past year grieving, healing, and trying to learn how to exist without him. I don’t think you ever fully stop loving someone you lost, but I think I’m finally ready to open my heart again and see what life has planned for me.
A little about me I love nature, art, photography, late-night conversations, music, gaming sometimes, quiet cafés, deep emotional connections, and people who can make me laugh until my stomach hurts. I don’t smoke or drink personally, but I don’t mind if you do as long as you can control it and it doesn’t become unhealthy.
I honestly don’t care whether the connection is short-distance or long-distance. What matters to me is effort, honesty, affection, communication, and emotional maturity. I’m open-minded and just hoping to meet someone kind-hearted who wants something meaningful.
If you think we’d get along, feel free to message me. Even if it starts as friendship, I’m open to seeing where things go :)